The Latest Dispatches

October 7, 2026

I Broke Up With My Therapist

After a year of therapy, Anita and I agreed to call it a day. Grief still present, brain somewhat operational, personality regrettably intact.

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September 30, 2026

For Lemon: Love, Grief, and Absolutely No Lessons Learned

Today is September 30. The date I would quite happily delete from the calendar if calendars accepted complaints. It’s Lemon’s death anniversary. And apparently…

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April 1, 2026

EMDR, a Whale Named Timmy, and Why I Refuse to “Get Better Properly”

I started EMDR therapy to deal with childhood trauma. Instead, I ended up reliving the moment my dog died. While therapists aim to reduce…

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